“I just got back home after the San Diego workshop. I told your friend Steve on the way to the airport how amazing it was to me that you've managed to work such artistry in engaging with others – others who're people who have never taken such a step like what you offer. You had these 'normal' folks participate so easily and openly in this work.

They danced, they moved, they never stopped.  They shared, they cried, their faces changed, and some had done virtually no training like this ever before.  Everyone shone! How amazing it is to me that you've created an event that enrolls and engages and supports and shines people right straight out of their typical, untouched, lives and gifts them with their own beauty.

I still don't understand how you get people to make the jump. I thought anyone who went through such an endeavor had to already have done something similar. You reach and touch and transform people without that. You lift people right out of where they live and take them straight up from their regular lives, riding on the wings of their hearts, to a place where (and you show them this so clearly) their hearts long to beat.

I've known you both through historical eyes. Though I cherish every moment and every calorie of our history, I see you differently now. I told Steve that I've always thought I got lucky to have ever known you, like I stumbled, in complete contradiction to virtually everything life had felt like before meeting you, on an undeserved miracle.  I learned this weekend, with complete humility, that I've deserved to know you. It’s my 'job' now to become who've guided me to see that I am.
- Beth (CA)

I have experienced many “personal growth” workshops in a variety of forums, but none come close to being as effective and enduring as Tom & Flame’s work. By focusing on developing personal strength in the domains of spirit, mind, body and emotion, they take a balanced view of the key dimensions that make each of us who we are in the world. I am highly impressed with the level of their knowledge, the strength of their compassion, and the power of their commitment to facilitating the fullest expression of each participant’s genius.” — Barbara (NY)

 

“Tom and Flame’s workshops create a unified resonant field which generates a state shift for people that is sustained throughout the weekend.  This state shift occurs from the combination of intimacy, vulnerability and body movement. This space – the vibration, the resonation – is beautiful and something that everyone would want to operate out of every minute of their day.”
— Bob (NY Business Consultant)

    • Work with pressing life issues
    • Release ways of being that no longer deliver satisfaction
    • Powerfully communicate your truth
    • Make good use of challenges
    • Transform relationship friction into fodder for growth
    • Listen in hard conversations
    • Heal dysfunctional family patterns
    • Release negative energy
    • Practice truth and intimacy
    • Experience safety in community
    • Grow from mistakes
    • Honor your deepest truth
    • Work with fear
    • Be more authentically yourself

The Stalking Truth Workshop is about intentionally placing yourself on a conscious growth curve, inside an environment both safe and challenging, in order to venture out beyond your usual limits of thought, feeling and expression. This new territory gives birth to personal evolutionary change.

True personal growth starts where what you already know stops. It extends out from where you are accomplished and moves into the unknown.

Celebration and joy in a relationship come through releasing a desire to control the other and by trusting truth to be the teacher. Through a relentless desire for truth, each person consistently encourages the complete uniqueness of the other. This is the most direct route to fully unwinding fear of intimacy, unconditional love and freedom. The result is a new found capacity to experience being and expressing who you are…in the presence of another. Doing this requires giving up the need to fit into another’s comfort zone of expectations, and instead learning to trust the truth to set you free. We call this “playing a bigger game,” bigger than the usual dramas which mesmerize and consume relationships. Learn, grow and evolve at choice in the presence of others desiring the same.

The art and the heart of relationship is understanding that there is great potential for any relationship to be a learning relationship. Essentially what there is to learn about is you. Courageous use of this understanding allows the challenging dynamics of any relationship to become an ongoing opportunity to more honestly reveal what you experience, what you see, and who you are.

The impact of the workshop will be learning how to use relationship with Self and Others as a method for accessing and developing the deepest and best qualities of who you are. There are no short cuts. Indeed it is the truth in the face of Self and Others that sets us free. Who and how would you have to be to hear it and speak it and feel it in a whole new way?

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